We hope you enjoyed those photos and are still feeling relaxed and sexy. Please answer the questions below. Remember, there’s no right or wrong, we are interested in your honest feelings. Have fun.
1. Which picture above did you find the most alluring?
2. Incidentally, which part of the woman did you click on the previous page to get to this page?
3. Are you a willing flirt? Describe the effect flirting has on you? Does it make you aroused? Do you feel more confident? More desirable? Are you more comfortable flirting with men you know or men you’ve just met? When flirting, do you ever ponder the question (or something similar) “I wonder what sex would be like with him”?
4. Yes, this is far-fetched, but suppose in real life you and your husband are away on a tropical vacation and staying at a very fine, upscale resort. One night a sophisticated, handsome, and debonair gentleman strikes up a conversation with the two of you while you’re sitting at an outside bar. You all hit it off quite well, and later, when your husband goes to the restroom, he makes you a proposition. He pulls from his coat pocket a two-inch thick stack of $100 bills, slides it over to you and says “Here is $50,000. I find you enormously attractive and would like nothing more than to make love to you. No strings attached. You can leave immediately after we have sex once, or stay through the night for more. But, in either case, you’ll be back in your room by morning. You can share and explain this offer to your husband any way you like. Your husband can watch or not, whichever makes you more comfortable and secure. But I guarantee nothing untoward will happen. I don’t have any strange fetishes, but if it would make it easier on you then you can set some ground rules on things you won’t do but I need to know so there are no misunderstandings. Rest assured I’m an excellent lover. In fact, you look like an honest woman. If you don’t have multiple orgasms, and if you can honestly say our time together is not the best sex you’ve ever had then I’ll give you an extra $10,000 when you leave. I’ll be at the end of the bar, let me know. “ How do you explain this to your husband (or don’t you)? Do you leave any parts out of the explanation? If you choose to accept, what conditions do you place on the arrangement? What happens next?
Time for a glass of wine? Perhaps treat yourself to some soft caresses. Revisit the slideshow above if you’d like; we need you to keep your mood while you read and understand some important information prior to the next couple of questions.
We know you, like most women, are completely heterosexual. That has been reinforced throughout this study. Because of that, we’d like to, for lack of a better term, explore around the edges a bit. Early assumptions of sexuality and sexual preferences were largely based on Kinsey research. However, more contemporary research is finding interesting nuances to what heterosexuals of each sex find alluring and seductive. For example, recently Boise State University has completed a study that makes us want to further explore the differences in same sex arousal (not preference or attitude) between males and females. We know on balance women are more emotional than men, more nurturing, and more social. While we’ve found that most women enjoy, to some extent, being led and dominated sexually, they also by a much wider margin appreciate the softness, bonding, and closeness of intimacy. On a general scale they crave comforting affection much more than men. This is why women are more apt to hug their friends, snuggle, etc. None of that is surprising and has been supported in countless psychological surveys and studies. However, what the Boise State study found that you may find surprising is that of women who define themselves as heterosexual (specifically not choosing bisexual or homosexual) and state that they have sex exclusively with men: 14% admit to having had a sexual encounter of some form with another female, and another 62% admit to finding women sexually arousing (this is beyond just acknowledging that a woman is attractive – a full 93% of women do that). Combined, that is over three out of four women who acknowledge other women being able to trigger their sexual interest or arousal. When analytics are brought into the study it is estimated, by other responses they gave, that another 8% of women also fall into this category but are too reluctant (for a multitude of reasons) to admit it. Add in this reluctance factor and the number is 84%. Comparatively, heterosexual males surveyed revealed that 6% had same sex encounters, while only another 13% found males sexually arousing. This makes sense anecdotally as well. Throughout the two studies you’ve done you have responded that there have been several pictures of women that you have found seductive or arousing. In similar studies with males, very few subjects report being aroused by the sensual pictures of males that we show them. To substantiate this point, of 500 heterosexual women surveyed by the University of Michigan, 283 (57%!) reported that they were more turned on by watching lesbian video clips than by watching M/F sexual clips.
Additionally, of the heterosexual women in the Boise State study, over 30% admitted to having kissed another woman and 71% answered that they have had at some point in their life (whether regularly, when they were young, pregnant, middle-aged, in college, after divorce, after children, etc.) a same-sex fantasy. Additionally, 83% of women admit to having had a dream that at some point included elevated sexual tension or overtones – if not outright sexual interaction – between them and another woman. Lastly, while heterosexual women find many things they like and that turn them on about the male body, over 80% responded that they also found – in the abstract – the feel of malleable breasts, flared hips, soft skin, a rounded or heart shaped ass, and protruding nipples sexually appealing. (On the male side less than 10% of males found muscular legs, a firm butt, solid pectoral muscles, or other typically attractive qualities of men to be sexually appealing). It is clear that females, even the overwhelming majority of females who are heterosexual and inclined to desire, seek out, and have sex with only men, have a much more expansive and appreciable capacity to derive arousal from their same sex than their heterosexual male counterparts. Understanding this information, and acknowledging your heterosexuality, can you please answer the following questions? To be clear, we are asking these not to discern whether you are less than 100% heterosexual. On the contrary, we are asking these specifically because you are heterosexual and we are trying to determine how broadly the heterosexual female mind works, and if there are pronounced variances in this due to race, age, education level, and other factors.
5. Has there ever been a period of time or circumstance in your life where you found women having an elevated sexual appeal to you? If so, describe the period, to what extent they aroused you, and what the impact of that arousal was (none, masturbation, fantasy, fantasy during sex with your male partner, sought out same-sex sexual stimuli on the web/books, looked for an encounter, had encounter)?
6. Have you ever had a dream that had a sexual component that involved another female? It needn’t have included actual sexual acts, but a dream that somehow included (knowing how odd dreams can be) sexual overtones or tension with another woman? Describe the dream(s)? Who was involved? How aroused were you in the dream? When you awoke, besides finding it odd, did you find it had aroused you?
7. From memory, describe two or three instances where you had intimate interaction with another female, or intimate physical contact if there were any such instances (past examples from participants included being comforted by a friend, or groping another humorously [goofing around at a party], massaging or being massaged, bonding/snuggling while watching a movie, having a quiet intimate dinner with a friend, celebrating, holding a friend’s hand). Describe the encounters, describe physically how it felt, mentally how it felt, was there ever a moment – if even for a fleeting instant – that your thoughts turned sexual or, equally important, you suspected your counterpart’s did? Did you ever share “a moment” per se?
8. Think back through your life, have you ever been compelled or inspired to masturbate as a result of seeing a woman/woman sex scene, or seeing pictures depicting such a scene, or reading an erotic short story or section of a book that had woman/woman sex, or because of an encounter you had with another woman, or because of a woman/woman encounter that someone else had that was relayed to you, or because of seeing a woman in a sexual situation such as masturbation, striptease, lap dance, etc.? Please describe the circumstance(s) and what you recall finding most arousing about them.
9. Are you enough of a submissive that you’re willing to be guided completely through sex? Can you be guided to relax while viewing and hearing sexual inputs? Could you be instructed to de-clutter your mind and just absorb the physical, aural, or visual inputs? If you were in a hotel room and your husband suddenly told you to drop to your knees and give him a blowjob, would you? Are you enough of a submissive to be instructed to do certain tasks or focus on particular things; would you listen and obey if you were instructed to sit at the end of the bed and unbutton your blouse? To raise your hands above your head so they can be bound together at the headboard? To bend over and lay your head and torso on a desk so that your ass is jutting out and exposed ready to be fucked? Could you hold off on orgasm until being given permission to cum? When you are near orgasm can your nipples be pinched? Your ass slapped? Can you do these things, and do thoughts of doing these things turn you on or close you off?
There are 45 either/or choices below. Some are sensual, some are crude, some fit together well, some draw odd contrasts. For each one involving sexual acts or ideas, pick the one you find more erotic or arousing. For each that involves appearance or a non-sexual option, pick the one you find more preferable. Some options might require you to pick the greater of two goods options, or the lesser of two bad options:
1. Your vagina hairless or hairy
please choose
My pussy hairless
My pussy hairy
2. Fucking hard and fast or slow and deep
please choose
I perfer fucking hard and fast
I perfer fucking slow and deep
3. To fuck a 3” cock or an 8” cock
please choose
It's hotter for me to think about being fucked by a 3 inch cock
It's hotter for me to think about being fucked by an 8 inch cock
4. An athletic alpha male that makes you feel safe, great in bed, but may occasionally wander or a nurturing, caring male that isn’t as protective or fun sexually but will always be there
please choose
I prefer to have an alpha male who makes me feels so good and accept the risk
I prefer to have the reliability and security of the caring male and trade off some fun
5. To suck a 6” cock or an 8” cock
please choose
I'd rather suck a 6 inch cock
I'd rather suck an 8 inch cock
6. During sex, anal play (no penetration) or no anal play
please choose
During sex I prefer some anal play (without penetration)
During sex I prefer no anal play
7. Your boobs to be A cups or D cups
please choose
I'd rather my boobs be A cups over D cups
I'd rather my boobs be D cups over A cups
8. Watching your husband with a woman or having a MMF threesome with your husband
please choose
Watching my husband with another woman
Having a MMF threesome with my husband
9. A hairy cock or a shaved cock
please choose
I prefer the look and feel of a hairy cock
I prefer the look and feel of a shaved cock
10. Reading an erotic story or forced (reluctant - against my will) orgasm
please choose
Reading an erotic story
Being fored to orgasm (reluctance - against my will)
11. When masturbating, your free hand on a breast or in your vagina
please choose
When masturbating I'd prefer my free hand play with my breast
When masturbating I'd prefer my free hand playing inside my vagina
12. Experiencing a G-spot orgasm during intercourse from a handsome man with a wider cock (with your husband’s ok) or never having a G-spot orgasm
please choose
With my husband's ok - have a Gspot orgasm from intercourse with another man
Never have a G spot orgasm
13. During sex, anal play with occasional/slight finger penetration or no anal play
please choose
During sex, anal play with slight penetration
During sex no anal play
14. Woman’s breast/nipple against your breast/nipple or anal sex
please choose
The feel of a woman's breast and nipple against my own
Anal sex
15. Orgasm on your back or orgasm on your belly (or doggie)
please choose
I prefer to orgasm while on my back
I prefer to orgasm while on my belly or doggy
16. Giving a blow job or fingering his ass
please chooose
I'd get hotter giving him a blow job
I'd get hotter fingering his ass
17. Watching a lesbian video or watching a MMF video
please choose
Watching a lesbian video would turn me on more
Watching a MMFvideo would turn me on more
18. G-spot stimulation or breast play
please choose
Give me the G-spot stimulation
Give me breast play
19. Cunnilingus or intercourse
please choose
Give me cunnilingus
Give me intercourse
20. The more fulfilling masturbation, by vibrator or fingers
please choose
It's more fulfilling when I masturbate with a vibrator
It's more fulfilling when I masturbate with my fingers
21. Light suction on your clit or G-spot stimulation
please choose
I prefer the feel of light suction on my clit
I prefer the feel of G-spot stimulation
22. Cum on your face or cum on his belly
please choose
It's hotter if he cums on my face
It's hotter if he cums on his belly
23. Being subtly aroused and teased by an expert Masseur or masturbating in a warm bath
please choose
I'd rather be teased and aroused by an expert Masseur
I'd rather masturbate in a warm bath
24. Nipple play or ass play
please choose
I find nipple play more arousing
I find ass play more arousing
25. Tied up or hands free
please choose
Tied up!
Hands free!
26. On women, long nipples or tiny nipples
please choose
On women, long nipples are sexy
On women, tiny nipples are sexy
27. Masturbating in the bath or in an office
please choose
Masturbating in the bath
Masturbating in an office
28. Your husband sucking a cock or you eating a pussy
please choose
The idea of my husband sucking a cock is hotter
The idea of me eating a pussy is hotter
29. Watching your husband be blindfolded and bound, then teased, sucked and probed by a dominatrix or the dominatrix doing those things to you
please choose
Watching my husband blindfolded bound and teased by a Dominatrix
Me being blindfolded bound and teased by a Dominatrix
30. To suck a 4” cock or a 6” cock
please choose
I'd rather suck a 4 inch cock
I'd rather suck a 6 inch cock
31. Your husband dominating and commanding you sexually, or your husband cuddling you and slowly arousing you (foreplay)
please choose
I want my husband to dominate and command me sexually
I want my husband to cuddle and slowly arouse me (foreplay)
32. Dream about a handsome stranger fucking you or dream about your husband masturbating to erotic pictures
please choose
A stranger fucking me would be a hotter dream
Dreaming about watching my husband masturbate to erotic pictures would be hotter
33. Listening to an erotic story or receiving a body to body massage
please choose
Listening to an erotic story
Receiving a body to body massage
34. On women, shaved pussies or hairy pussies
please choose
On women, shaved pussies are sexy
On women, hairy pussies are sexy
35. Wax dripped on your tits or exposing yourself in public
pleases choose
Wax dripped on my tits
Exposing myself in public
36. Boobs on your face or cum on your face
please choose
Boobs on my face
Cum on my face
37. Experiencing a G-spot orgasm or a free 4 day/3 night trip to Florida
please choose
I'd like to experience a G-spot orgasm
I'd like a 4 day, 3 night trip to Florida
38. Pegging your husband with a strap on or reading a good erotic story
please choose
Pegging my husband
A good erotic story
39. You being tied up before a small audience and forcibly brought to orgasm by a vibrator strapped to your clit or you having four guys – one fucking you, one you’re blowing, and two you’re stroking – all cum on you at the same time
please choose
I'd rather be tied up and forcibly brought to orgasm before a small audience
I'd rather have four guys at once all cum on me
40. Right before you cum, a finger playing with your ass or lips kissing your neck
please choose
Right before I cum I want a finger playing with my ass
Right before I cum I want lips kissing my neck
41. Watching a MMF video or watching a masturbation video
please choose
Watch a MMF video
Watch a masturbation video
42. Receiving a private dance from a Chippendale or a private lap dance from a female dancer
please choose
Having a Chippendale give me a private dance
Having a private lap dance from a female dancer
43. An erotic short story or a guided sensual/sexual imagery session
please choose
I'd want to read an erotic story
I'd want to have a guided sensual/sexual imagery session
44. You in latex handcuffing your husband or you being lightly caressed by a masseuse
please choose
Me wearing latex and handcuffing my husband
Me being lightly caressed by a masseuse
45. Having your clit delicately sucked or being fucked doggie style
please choose
Having my clit delicately sucked
Me being fucked doggie style
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